Normal/Weird ratios...

So tonight I went on a date, dinner and a movie (which is normal for most people, but weird for me). We went to see Christmas on Mars (normal for me, probably weird for most people) which was playing at the Brattle-where else? The Boy said he missed me since we hadn't seen each other in three (three!) days. I resisted the urge to give a sarcastic retort about who wears the pants in this relationship, and merely said that that was sweet. Why is it that the more aloof I get, the more clingy they get? Isn't it supposed to be the other way around?